My father developed Lymphoma in 2014, the year I finished my Movement Disorders fellowship, joined University of Nebraska Medical Center as faculty and started visiting Pakistan. We only found it out a year later. He was delighted for my first visit back in July 2014, a visit after 5 years in US (busy in training and not risking visa status). But as we planned visit, he asked me to visit the local institutions and teach; while I ruminated about get …